Of course children do not want to sleep alone! Neither want nor need. Babies who are not in contact with the body of their mothers, showed a bleak empty universe that is well away from the desire that brought him from the period they lived in the love of their mothers womb. Newborn babies are not ready for a leap into nothingness: a crib with no movement, no smell, no sound, no sensation of life. This separation the mother's body causes more suffering than we can imagine and set a nonsense in the mother-child bond. It's okay if we bring children into bed. We'll all be happy. You just need to be tested to make sure the child goes to sleep with smiles, that night is soft and there is nothing that can be counterproductive when there is no prosperity. Unfortunately, young mothers are wary of our ability to understand the orders of our children who are unmistakably clear. The idea that social circle needs a baby makes them "spoiled", but paradoxically, time and again get the opposite result was expected because the extent do not sleep melee with children, nor touch, nor the tight ... they will claim more and more. Consider that the "time" for young children is seen as a painful and heartbreaking if the mother does not attend, unlike the experiences in the womb where every need was met instantly. Now the wait, it hurts. If children have to wait too long to find comfort in the arms of his mother, cling to the breasts vigorously, biting, hurting or crying, just have access to the maternal body. Fear is the main company, because they know that the absence of the mother will eat them anytime. Children are right in demanding physical contact because they are totally dependent on maternal care. Are aware of their fragile state and do what all healthy children do: require adequate care for their survival. The night is long and dark, and no child should go through it when alone. How long? Until the child does not need it anymore.
Laura Gutman.
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